Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Tara Denneny shared a research study to Psychology Today about the two tests that a couple must survive in order to feel satisfied in their relationship: (1) Partner’s way of dealing with the issues in relationship, and (2) Partner’s reaction to good news. According to Denneny, to survive the first test and receive the reward of “satisfaction in one’s relationship,” the couple’s way of communicating their issues must be, “active-constructive.” This means, whenever problems arise in the relationship, the couple will talk about those setbacks and will constantly look for ways to resolve the issues.
Validating partner’s perspectives, verbalizing one’s opinion to the issues, suggesting solutions that will benefit both people involved in the relationship, recognizing one’s mistakes, doing things that can lower one’s negative emotions (i.e. temporarily stepping away from the conflict,) and giving forgiveness to one’s partner are the keys to achieve active-constructive way of dealing with the issues to one’s relationship.
As for the second test, the individual must shared the enthusiasm that their partner feels toward the positive news they got. According to Denneny, it’s easier to share enthusiasm with one’s partner when the individual is constantly taking care of their mental health.
So with the science-based criteria of measuring relationship satisfaction: (1) active-constructive way of dealing with the issues in the relationship, and (2) sharing enthusiasm with partner’s feelings toward good news, which of these 2023 fantasy K-Drama couples do you think will pass the two relationship tests?
"Kokdu: Season of Deity" Couple: Han GyeJeol and Kokdu
"My Perfect Stranger" Couple: Baek YoonYoung and Yoon HaeJun
"The Heavenly Idol" Couple: Kim Dal and Rembrary
"Sound Candy" Couple: Go ChaeRin and Kang HaeSung
"See You in My 19th Life" Couple: Ban JiEum and Moon SeoHa
"Heartbeat" Couple: Joo InHae and Sun WooHyeol
"My Lovely Liar" Couple: Mok SolHee and Kim DoHa
"Moving" Couple: Lee MiHyun and Kim DooSik
"Destined With You" Couple: Lee HongJo and Jang ShinYu
"A Time Called You Couple: Han JunHee and Koo YeonJun
"Twinkling Watermelon" Couple: On EunYoo and Ha EunGyeol
"Strong Girl NamSoon" Couple: Kang NamSoon and Kang Hee-sik
"A Good Day To Be A Dog" Couple: Han HaeNa and Jin SeoWon
"Moon In The Day" Couple: Han RiTa and DoHa
"The Story Of Park’s Marriage Contract" Couple: Park YeonWoo and Kang TaeHa
"My Demon" Couple: Do DoHee and Jung GuWon
"My Man is Cupid" Couple: Oh BaekRyun and Cheon SangHyuk
Note: Since there are more than fifty 2023 K-Drama couples from various genres, the fan writer of this poll decided to focus to one genre only. For the K-Drama couples from the other genres that you think will pass the two relationship test, you can write their name in the comment section.